DEVELOPING OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH ALLAH
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DEVELOPING OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH ALLAH
In  July 2006, I was watching the news report on Israel's devastating  attack on Lebanon. As I saw the images of severed bodies and heard the  cries for help, the frustration and helplessness I felt was  overwhelming. So I decided to pray while reciting from the mus'haf  (hardcopy of the Qur'an, which is the word of God). As I was reading, I  arrived at the verse:
| "Or do you think that you will enter Paradise while such [trial] has not yet come to you as came to those who passed on before you? They were touched by poverty and hardship and were shaken until [even their] messenger and those who believed with him said, 'When is the help of Allah?' Unquestionably, the help of Allah is near." [Qur'an, 2:214] | 
And that was the answer. As human  beings, we will be tested. But this doesn't mean that we are going to  live our lives in perpetual hardship, because 'unquestionably, the help  of Allah is near.' So what does it mean when we are going through  hardship? Is Allah  (exalted is He) angry with us? What if there is no way out?
 (exalted is He) angry with us? What if there is no way out?
Whenever we go through hardship, there are things we need to know with certainty. Allah  tells us in the Qur'an:
 tells us in the Qur'an:
| "[...] Allah will bring about, after hardship, ease." [Qur'an,         65:7] | 
Certain hardships are so consuming that  we cannot focus on anything but the difficulty. But we have to remember  that if we were to enumerate the blessings of Allah  ,  we would not be able to count them. Reminding ourselves of the other  blessings in our lives helps us to see the test within the context of  the grand scheme of things. Just the fact that you can make sajda  (prostration), and call out, "O Allah!" is a blessing that surpasses all  others.
,  we would not be able to count them. Reminding ourselves of the other  blessings in our lives helps us to see the test within the context of  the grand scheme of things. Just the fact that you can make sajda  (prostration), and call out, "O Allah!" is a blessing that surpasses all  others.
There is a purpose behind the trial, and this purpose corresponds to our internal state and our relationship with Allah  . Allah
. Allah  has 99 Beautiful Names, and it should suffice us to know that He is the  Most Merciful, the Most Just and the Most Wise. Your test is not being  put upon you by a random being, but by the Almighty Allah, who is closer  to us than our jugular vein.
 has 99 Beautiful Names, and it should suffice us to know that He is the  Most Merciful, the Most Just and the Most Wise. Your test is not being  put upon you by a random being, but by the Almighty Allah, who is closer  to us than our jugular vein.
Tests are a way to purify us. The Prophet  said, "No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor  distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a  thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that,"  [Bukhari].  Our ultimate aim is to earn Allah's pleasure and Jannah (paradise), and  all of us fall short in truly worshiping Allah
 said, "No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor  distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a  thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that,"  [Bukhari].  Our ultimate aim is to earn Allah's pleasure and Jannah (paradise), and  all of us fall short in truly worshiping Allah  as He should be worshiped. Many of us fail to ask for forgiveness regularly, or to reflect on our state and return to Allah
 as He should be worshiped. Many of us fail to ask for forgiveness regularly, or to reflect on our state and return to Allah  . These tests, as burdensome as they are, ease our burden on the Day of Judgment, if we respond with patience.
. These tests, as burdensome as they are, ease our burden on the Day of Judgment, if we respond with patience.
Trials also have a way of reminding us of our purpose. If we are far from Allah  ,  the test is usually to bring us close to Him. Whatever heedlessness we  are engaging in, the test should make us realize we have no one, no one  at all, but Him.
,  the test is usually to bring us close to Him. Whatever heedlessness we  are engaging in, the test should make us realize we have no one, no one  at all, but Him.
Sheikh Ratib an-Nabulsi related a story about a man in Syria. This man  would always mock Islam. He thought people who 'wasted their time'  praying were silly. No matter how much da'wah (calling, used to refer to  inviting people to learn about Islam) the sheikh gave him, the man  remained in this state. He then had a daughter, and this daughter became  very sick. He went to so many doctors, even traveling abroad to Europe,  but no one could help him. After that, he started praying and turning  to Allah  . Years later, his daughter was better and healthy. Both his dunya (this life) and akhira (the next life) were saved.
. Years later, his daughter was better and healthy. Both his dunya (this life) and akhira (the next life) were saved.
If we are close to Allah  , it is to test our resilience. Are we only close to Allah
, it is to test our resilience. Are we only close to Allah  in times of ease, or does our trust extend to the times of hardship?  When we are tested, do we leave the good deeds that we used to do? Allah
 in times of ease, or does our trust extend to the times of hardship?  When we are tested, do we leave the good deeds that we used to do? Allah  describes such people in the following verse:
 describes such people in the following verse:
| "And of the people is he who worships Allah on an edge. If he is touched by good, he is reassured by it; but if he is struck by trial, he turns on his face [to the other direction]. He has lost [this] world and the Hereafter. That is what is the manifest loss." [Qur'an, 22:11] | 
This may seem counter-intuitive, but tests are also out of Allah's love. The Prophet  said, "When Allah loves a servant, He tests him," [Tirmidhi]. In a hadith qudsi (a hadith relating the words of Allah
 said, "When Allah loves a servant, He tests him," [Tirmidhi]. In a hadith qudsi (a hadith relating the words of Allah  ), Allah
), Allah  tells Jibreel to delay the response to the du`a' of a servant because Allah
 tells Jibreel to delay the response to the du`a' of a servant because Allah  loves hearing his voice [Tabarani]. Sometimes the answer to a test is that need for Allah
 loves hearing his voice [Tabarani]. Sometimes the answer to a test is that need for Allah  , those long hours spent in the night, and the tears of sincerity.
, those long hours spent in the night, and the tears of sincerity.
May Allah  make us of those who constantly turn to Him, in hardship and ease.
 make us of those who constantly turn to Him, in hardship and ease.
